What are the signs of an unhealthy relationship? Would you know if you were in a bad relationship? Most new relationships start out with good behavior, positive impressions, flowers, attention, compliments and everything you may want to hear. After a few weeks, a controlling partner begins to ask Why? Why do you wear those shoes, that outfit, those pants, etc.? Your first thought may be 'I really like these shoes, outfit etc...but I guess I need to change because my partner does not like it.' This situation may be a personal friendly opinion; however, it could also be the beginning stage of abuse and control. Here are a few examples of red flags:
- frequently questions you when you work late;
- prevents you from seeing certain friends and family and you begin to isolate;
- questions you about why your cell phone rings at night and checks your cell phone;
- calls you numerous times per day and your every move is monitored;
- shows signs of jealousy and rage.
Understand that some demands made by your partner are not acts of love. If you identify with several red flags, counseling will help assess your relationship and may help you before a crisis occurs.
- frequently questions you when you work late;
- prevents you from seeing certain friends and family and you begin to isolate;
- questions you about why your cell phone rings at night and checks your cell phone;
- calls you numerous times per day and your every move is monitored;
- shows signs of jealousy and rage.
Understand that some demands made by your partner are not acts of love. If you identify with several red flags, counseling will help assess your relationship and may help you before a crisis occurs.
